Spareparts Joque

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So far I have the Aslan Minx, the Spareparts Joque, two spareparts sashas, Aslan Commando, and finally the Mr. S Leather harness. The Mr. S Leather is by far the best one for bigger toys. It has an extra strap which is removable to hold toys steady. It also has a really strong vac u lock peg that holds my toys really well.

SpareParts HardWear Joque is what me and my wife settled on. Its been amazing! It comes in two sizes and is highly adjustable. Not only is it very comfortable for her to wear, there are two pockets inside that you can insert mini vibes in.

I have a SpareParts Joque harness, and one of the reasons I love it is the long fabric panel-- I'm trans and don't really like my vagina being 'out' during strap-on sex, but also love the way two-strap harnesses frame my butt if I don't wear underwear underneath the harness. I have a big leather kink and I've been looking for a leather harness recently, but haven't found one that gives that kind of coverage. I have a preference for thicker straps (especially around the back, as I'm a chunkier guy), but don't like corset detailing. It doesn't need to be able to hold especially large toys (the Joque fits most toys I want to use).

The Spareparts joque gets recommended a lot but I'm not a fan. The oring is stretchy but not able to be changed out. And you can use the cum tubes while in a harness. As for the strapless ones, I've hated them all.