Racy by Pillow Talk

My clit is more resilient than my labia which saddens me and my Mimi Soft :( **Pillow Talk Racy** has the best vibration quality and intensity for me, so I’m looking for something similar, but bigger so I can target a wider area. So I am looking for a broad vibe, but with gentle, low intensity yet rumbly vibrations. Currently considering:.

I would recommend the We-Vibe Jive over the Lovense Lush for vaginismus, because the Jive is a smaller toy that would be easier to insert. I think maybe slender G-spot toys might be a good way to find pleasure vaginally with vaginismus? I'm curious myself about some of them, like the Svakom Cici or Coco, or the BMS Pillow Talk Racy.

I would definitely recommend either something really small but hard OR something squishy and just slightly bigger (bearing in mind that the Avant Heart of Gold is definitely bigger and squishier than the Pillow Talk Racy). Single density means there’s just the one layer of silicone all the way through, and dual density means there’s a firm core with a squishier outside - those are quite comfortable in my experience and a bit more like an actual penis.

This will absolutely vibrate your fingers a lot though. A gentler, but still popular affordable bullet is the BMS Essential Bullet, but again you will feel a lot vibration in your fingers, though not as intense. The Pillow Talk Racy could be another option, this time with a longer handle and a slight curve, though that’s going to be closer to $45-50. That also has a short battery-life on high.

The [Pillow Talk is really thin and small with a surprisingly good motor for the price-point. There aren't a lot of *soft* options when it comes to G-spot vibrators in materials, unfortunately, especially on the smaller end.

It's wonderfully powerful, and would provide a more broad external stimulation rather than pinpoint clitoral. Tl;Dr when someone tells me they want a first toy for mostly external but might want to try penetration, my most common recommendation is the Racy from Pillow Talk.

The BMS Pillow Talk Racy has a bit of a hook for G-spotting and is a similar "either slim insertable or clit bullet" design. The Svakom Cici and Coco are also slim entry-level vibes for exploring vaginal penetration if you're interested. Mind, don't feel you *have* to do vaginal penetration--it's okay to just not feel like it!! I'm just giving you options.

I started out with Pillow Talk Racy since it’s the slimmest one (chargeable) I’ve seen in Oxford Street (London). Only 0.86 diameter but I still find it really difficult to insert even when I’m super turned on.

The Sassy gets a lot of really great reviews, though mind the girth--if that's too big for you, the Pillow Talk Racy might be better. The BMS Powerbullet generally gets ranked as one of the best low-cost bullets--of course the We-Vibe Tango X is better, but that's like your whole budget. (Both of the We-Vibe clit toys, the Tango X and the Touch X, get really positive reviews, it's down to which form factor you like better. ).